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The following is a question originally sent to Loveandlearn.com.  An incredibly verbose response by guest panelist Vivi (me) can be found here.

HER SIDE:

I am 28 year old female, I have 2 children, and have been married since I was 17.

My husband Cabby is 27. He is a very athletic, outgoing person

JW is an older gentlman, he is 18 years my senior to be exact, and also married

Cabby and I have been married since I was 17. He is a provider and an excellent father. We do not have much in common, but we manage. The romance and passion ceases to exist in our life. JW came into my life just recently, we have not gone beyond the boundaries of friendship, but there is a lot of innocent (or maybe not innocent) flirting between the two of us. He has stated his unhappiness with his marriage, and others have made comments of his attraction to me. There is tremendous tempation.

How do I overcome the tempation, when there is a lack of romance and passion with my current love?

HIS SIDE:

I did not know there was a story to tell. We have been together for 11 years. Since we were actually almost babies. We have 2 children and I think we are pretty happy.

Maybe lately we have been arguing a little more than

usual, but don't all couples? I think she might have feelings for another man, but she would never admit it to me or anyone else. I love her, and I always will. She is my true soul mate, and I think she feels the same way about me.

What story did she give you?

 

Vivi's Response to Confused and Tempted

 

 

 

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